All or Nothing

Good Evening Everyone.  How are you doing?

I just wanted to come to you quickly with a bit of insight into the life of Team Trash.  I’m not someone who feels halfway about things.  I’m not one to be wishy-washy.  I tend to be 0% or 100% in every aspect of my life.

It’s only as I get older that I find that trait of mine has become a hindrance.  With each new venture that I’ve come across, I see myself either being far too patient and forgiving of people on one extreme.  At the other extreme, I’m cursing people out and showing my ass.  This imbalance holds me back because I come across as afraid to ask for what I want or even deserve.  And if I do let my temper flare, it’s unprofessional, unpleasant, and no good for any parties involved.  I don’t want to come across as crazy when I’m angry but I’m not great at conveying how upset I am without getting crazy.

It’s not effective and I think that I need to find a way to show how I’m feeling without losing my cool or level head.

What do you all think?  Is there a way to be stern without blowing a gasket?  How do you all handle these issues?  Let me know in the comments!

Bye Francesca!

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